¿qué significa ser grisexual?
Lichi
Grisexuality is a way of looking at life like any other. If we understand that there are couples who enjoy watching porn and others who do not have relationships, we could say that grisexuals are those who find the middle ground between both extremes.
In many cases, they lean towards the total absence of relationships not for lack of desire, but because it is somewhat demanding. That is to say, a grisexual may feel physical attraction for someone and may also feel like having sex, but always under a series of very specific conditions.
– They only feel sexual attraction if they know it will not be reciprocated. We could discuss the second part of the sentence, but we are afraid that almost all of us fall into this category. It is a «I want to and I can’t», but also a «I like challenges».
This terminology seems to be gaining followers since, as you have seen, asexuality falls within the parameters of this trend. Not infrequently, they are unable to feel attraction for someone and prefer not to have relationships.
Lichi
«It’s the first cousin of asexuality,» Melancon continues. In an article published in ‘Mic’ magazine in 2015, sex pedagogue Sari Locker argued that grisexual people «feel they fall within the gray area between asexuality and more conventional sexual interest.» If it is already difficult to identify asexual people, who evidently tend to camouflage themselves among the vast majority who claim to be or by default are allosexual, grisexuals are a minority within this group.
«Those who have always thought they were too introverted, I would tell them to read and study up on how they feel,» advises Beverly D. Buchanan, a Minnesota marriage therapist. «A lot of people will tell them to ‘come out’ and ‘find someone,’ but that’s very discouraging when they feel they are different from everyone else. It’s easier to come out of the gray-sexuality closet once you have enough information to feel confident in your identity, or at least confident enough to talk about it.»
Grisexual ¿qué es la grisexualidad?
No tuve relaciones sexuales hasta los 21 años, cuando formalicé una relación. Estuvimos juntos un año antes de formalizar. (Hice un viaje por lo que no nos vimos durante 11 meses). Puedo pensar sobre todo en una vida juntos, en sentirme cálida en sus manos, en cuidarme. También pienso en él sexualmente.
Estoy segura de que la mayoría de las personas sexuales pierden el interés en una persona, si esa persona tiene una pareja. No sé si esa es una experiencia específica de la comunidad asexual. Soy un hombre gay, y no tengo ningún interés en tener sexo con hombres que están en pareja. Mi atracción sexual por ellos se minimiza si sé que no están disponibles. Minimizada, o inexistente. Simplemente no me siento sexual hacia individuos con los que sé que nunca podría estar de todos modos. Puedo tener pensamientos fugaces sobre lo atractivos que son, pero los aplasto, porque son inapropiados para el contexto.
Quizás una mayor experimentación podría ayudarte a discernir si tu falta de interés por el sexo físico tiene que ver con otras causas. Si experimentas amor, atracción sexual y calor por una persona, parece que explorar la sexualidad con ella sería beneficioso. No está claro en tu post si todavía tienes una relación?
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Grisexuality is a way of looking at life like any other. If we understand that there are couples who enjoy watching porn and others who do not have relationships, we could say that grisexuals are those who find the middle ground between both extremes.
In many cases, they lean towards the total absence of relationships not for lack of desire, but because it is somewhat demanding. That is to say, a grisexual may feel physical attraction for someone and may also feel like having sex, but always under a series of very specific conditions.
– They only feel sexual attraction if they know it will not be reciprocated. We could discuss the second part of the sentence, but we are afraid that almost all of us fall into this category. It is a «I want and I can’t», but also a «I like challenges».
This terminology seems to be gaining followers since, as you have seen, asexuality falls within the parameters of this trend. Not infrequently, they are unable to feel attraction for someone and prefer not to have relationships.
